I have heard a series of idiotic crap about big girls throughout
the years, I usually try not to remember the mean things but you know what,
sometimes what hurts you only make you fiercer. So I use it as my fuel, all
this sexiness has to come from somewhere doesn’t it.
Big girls are easy. I beg to differ, desperate girls are
easy, big girls are just voluptuously fat. I don’t know why people always think
plus size women are easy to get in bed. Promiscuity has no logical relationship
to size. I just don’t get it. Maybe, just maybe, someone sleeps around because they
like it, or have self-esteem issues.
Big girls stink. OK we shower, like everyone, with soap
and water, we shampoo our hair, we wear perfume. I mean come on! We even lift
the rolls to rub soap under them.
Big girls can’t wear heels. Just visit my closet. It’s just a matter
of being comfortable in the shoes you wear. I know plenty skinny girls who walk
barefoot around the club while I still have my heels on.
Big girls have illnesses. By that they usually mean diabetes, high
blood pressure, cholesterol and the others. While it has been scientifically
proven that obesity does generate some of these illnesses, it doesn’t mean that
we automatically have them. I am proud to say I don’t have any of them. To
quote my doctor, I am the healthiest fat person he has met. So don’t assume. An
illness is an unfortunate thing people, fat or skinny, may have to endure.
Big girls don’t work out. There is a reason you don’t see us at
the gym, it’s because of all the skinny, skin and bones chicks that are at the
gym, complaining about how big their thighs are, or how they had a bite of
chocolate today so they have to run an extra hour on the treadmill. It makes us
uncomfortable. Our fat will jiggle, and we probably won’t do the moves right.
That place makes us vulnerable; we can’t help it, so adding judgmental shallow
people to the mix is a recipe for failure. But we do do other things, for
example I dance and if I may say I am very good at it.
Big girls can cook. Ask my husband, I can burn the house
down trying to make eggs. So y’all just think that we cook to eat hence why we
are big? Well I can’t cook, I am not even interested in learning how to.
These are a few of the things I’ve heard before that pop to my
mind. People rarely think about the impact of the crap they say; they fail to
remember that your size doesn’t remove your feelings. Some of the things people
say can be so mean and hurtful but they say them regardless. And some girls,
fat or skinny, can be so crushed when they hear these things.
Now next time you want to make a joke about a girl being fat, or
even if it isn’t a joke, think twice, we already have it hard finding clothes
or fitting in airplane seats (a whole other story that I will probably
share too); just keep your thoughts to yourself.
Until next time my fellow fatties, friends and readers (you too
haters, I know y’all can’t help but secretly read). Stay fabulous!
#teamsexypatate
#Amen
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